Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Multiple personality

Multiple personality is the existence of multiple personalities within an individual and is termed as dissociative identity disorder. He can have a very friendly attitude towards some people, and a absolutely harsh attitude towards others. Most people that have this disorder don't realise it, and they think that what they've done is perfectly normal. Well, to be fair, some to a smaller scale isn't exactly termed disorder. But, it's still a scary thought.

Some people say it's just bias and that's natural. Take for example, the "guai guai" sweet looking girl who is always so ever cheerful and polite in school, is actually a pampered girl who throws tantrum at her family members, calling them names and demanding everything. You will never find out about, nor believe that she's such a person until you see/hear it for yourself. Tell me, isn't this common nowadays? So is that natural? or is it the upbringing of the kid has gone wrong ?

Honestly, how many people are guilty of this.. Treating friends more important than their family? I've personally witness some friends who really scream and shout at their parents, giving absolutely no patience. It's really disgraceful and unbecoming. How can anyone be so disrepectful to someone who has given life to you, provided you with food, water, shelter and watch you grow? Some may argue that they have never received love from them, but you can't deny that the fact that you are still alive and kicking is the result of them providing you with all the neccesities. So what wrong have they done to deserve such unfilial treatment?

I can't help but despise those who are so pampered, thinking that they are the only important people in the world, and everyone should give way/suit them. Someone should just seriously give a hard knock on those people's head and wake them up.

Its part and parcel of life that we'll grow and grow. One day, we'll be independent and find someone that cares enough for us, love us, and take care of us. So does that mean that it's alright for us to forget about our roots? why do some people choose to give all their life and time to their loved ones, only to leave their oldies all alone? Have our perspective changed ? How would you feel if it's your kids that has found a bf/gf and spend the time with them, only to leave you alone sitting at home? Yes, no doubt its the different phases in life that we'll have to go through, the least we could do is to get in touch, and take care of our parents when required. They are afterall, our parents.

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